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Girl In Translation…

In Daily Musings on February 10, 2012 at 10:23 am

By Jean Kwok This is my fluff piece for today, as I’m on deadline for a project. See you later darlings!

Girl In Translation was a  book I finished last month, and I decided it was good enough to let you know about it.  To me it was a really good book, it had me from the first couple of pages.  It’s more in the chick lit genre, a quick and easy read, but yet will keep you wanting to know what happens next.   The little girl, Kimberly Chang, who is the main character was a very strong individual for her age, and had to learn quickly how to survive, and protect herself and her mother on the streets of Brooklyn and Manhattan after they emigrated from Hong Kong to America, while barely speaking english.  No one should live in the circumstances they found themselves in (read the book!).

 As for the aunt in the story… I don’t want to spoil it for you, but she was a piece of work! I will say that the story does fast forward very quickly from Kimberly being 16 to an adult and how her life eventually turned out.  I felt it left  out part of her life story.  The adult Kimberly came in the form of an epilogue, but other than that if you’re looking for a quick read, this is it!   Happy Friday… Smooches!

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Happy Birthday Alice…

In Daily Musings on February 9, 2012 at 9:56 am

Alice Walker that is! Happy Birthday to the brilliant author who gave us The Colour Purple, The Temple of My Familiar, Meridian, The Chicken Chronicles and many other great literary works. She is best known for her novel “The Colour Purple” which really put her on the map,  and for which she won a Pulitzer Prize.  As you already know, the book was made into a beautiful Oscar nominated (11) movie.

In 2008 Alice walker wrote an open letter to new elected President Barack Obama, Alice Walker addresses the new President as “Brother Obama”.  Read the letter for yourself @ http://www.theroot.com/views/open-letter-barack-obama

Visit Alice Walker’s new website @ http://alicewalkersgarden.com/  to get more information about her.  If you haven’t read The Colour Purple in a long time (or haven’t read it at all), maybe it’s time to read it again, or finally pick it up.  If time is an issue, get some popcorn and a glass of wine, settle on the sofa and watch the movie to celebrate Alice’s birthday.

       

Alice in 1970

Designer Sex Anyone…

In Daily Musings on February 8, 2012 at 5:12 pm

Well it’s finally happened, there is now a Louis Vuitton condom! Priced at $68.  Now wouldn’t $69 have been a better price point? (smirk!) Why oh why do we need a designer condom?? and for $68!!!! I think I’m extremely fabulous, but I don’t think I need a Louie condom, Trojans will do!  Apparently an architect from Georgia Republic, Irakli Kiziria designed the condom, there is no affiliation with the esteemed designer store, So don’t go running to your nearest Louis Vuitton store to buy a pack  (ladies you should always have your own pack of condoms at the ready).  Irakli and his team are hoping to launch the product on World Aids Day and donate the proceeds to amFAR, The Foundation for Aids Research.  It’ll be interesting to know what Mr. Marc Jacobs has to say about this.  Marc might find it funny but I don’t think Bernard Arnault, the head of LVMH will.  If nothing else I can see a major lawsuit coming Mr. Kiziria’s way. Happy Hump Day!

Small Island…

In Daily Musings on February 7, 2012 at 10:55 am

Last night I watched the first installment of the most amazing mini-series on PBS. The series is called “Small Island“, It’s about the migration of Jamaicans to England in the 1950’s when Jamaica was still a colony of England.  This is obviously the second showing of this series, I have no idea how I missed it the first time around 2 years ago!

This series really touched me in a personal way, because as a first generation, “British born Jamaican” it gave me an idea of why my parents moved to Britain and what they found when they got there.  It was not Buckingham Palace and tea for them!  Even though my mother, told me stories of what it was like, to actually see a vision of it on-screen, it gave me more clarity. These characters could have been my parents.  In one scene, the main character Hortense, asks if there is electricity in every room and when she is told yes, she gets really excited.  Hortense longs for a fulling life and a doorbell after being born and raised in a broken and impoverished home.  Hortense is a school teacher and has it in her head that when she gets to London she will be  teaching rich girls and having tea with the Queen (yes she really does!).  There is never ever doubt in Hortense’s mind that she will get to England, it’s just a matter of how.  Hortense, does what she has to, to get to London (that scene had me falling out laughing, she got a box in her mouth, for her efforts, Jamaican’s understand what I mean!).

Great scene!

There is a quote from Hortense “This island is too small if you have big dreams… without dreams you are nothing” .  This was the mindset of most people on the island, and the reason why they wanted to move away, thinking there was a better life in England. There was, but they worked long and hard and took a lot of abuse for it.  Nothing was handed to them… Nothing!

It was mind-boggling for me to watch the scene where Jamaicans were waving the Union Jack in Jamaica (as that was their flag at the time), all British colonies flew the Union Jack.  Jamaica gained their independence in 1962, the same year my mother left to join my father in London, England.

Before Jamaicans arrived in England, they really thought that because they were under British rule, and therefore “British subjects” they would be treated the same as the Brits once they arrived on those cold, damp, chilly shores.  This was not the case! What they did not realize was the British only wanted them there as cheap labour, to help rebuild after being bombed to dust by Germany.  The Brits really thought the Jamaicans (and other West Indians) were going to come over on a long hard voyage by ship, work themselves to death and then return to Jamaica… Boy were they mistaken! For us British born Jamaicans, this series will certainly touch us deep inside, because our parents lived it.

I don’t want to give too much away about the series as there is a second installment next Monday.  This post will continue.  Last night ended very interestingly, the drama is about to be ramped up. Stay tuned. 

If you haven’t seen it, it’s is a must see, and if you have, take the time to watch it again.  In the meantime visit http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/masterpiece/smallisland/index.html where you can find more information.  This series was adapted from the book of the same name by Andrea Levy.

Andrea Levy

Happy Birthday Bob…

In Daily Musings on February 6, 2012 at 3:42 pm

Happy Birthday to Nesta Robert Marley. Big up from all your British Born Jamaican Fans! We will always love you! you brought your music to the world, which crossed all colours and boundaries.  No matter who you are, where you lived or what type of music you listened to, you knew who Bob Marley was, and we still know who he is today!  If you have nothing else of his, I know you’ve got the Legend Album.  When you have a moment, please read and listen to a great post by fellow blogger Midnight Raver http://fb.me/1FxuTjvIP  Also take a trip to http://www.bobmarley.com/ One Love! 

Happy Birthday!!

In Daily Musings on February 4, 2012 at 5:06 pm

Beautiful Sally Sohn Jewelry.

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My mother always said I had expensive taste and she remains correct in her assessment. This bracelet by Sally Sohn features antique beads, diamond set balls and gem set charms. My assumption is that Dallas’s Stanley Korshak has only one available, for USD $34,5000 here. The designer, who is Korean raised and based in LA, finds her inspiration in antiques and art.

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In Daily Musings on February 2, 2012 at 12:29 pm

Jody Watley’s moving tribute to Don Cornelius. May he Rest In Peace.

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Jody Watley’s moving tribute to Don Cornelius. May he Rest In Peace.

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Black History Month…

In Daily Musings on February 1, 2012 at 9:53 am

As we move into the 29 days of Black History Month (yes we get an extra day this year) What does it mean to you? Is it a time of reflection? is it a time for us to look how far we’ve come and/or how far we’re going backwards? Do you think Dr. King would be proud of us right about now? While researching what I was going to write today, I found this article on Yahoo News, if you do nothing else today, you’ve got to take the time out to read this, even if you have to print it to read later, put it on your to-do list.  It’s a letter from a freed slave, responding to his one time master who wanted him to return to the plantation.  I think you’ll be as tickled as I was with his response.  Whatever Black History Month means to you… Enjoy!

http://m.yahoo.com/w/news_america/blogs/sideshow/letter-freed-slave-former-master-draw-attention-151653952.html?orig_host_hdr=news.yahoo.com&.intl=us&.lang=en-us

 

 

How Beautiful….

In Daily Musings on January 31, 2012 at 3:11 pm

These ladies look!  Queens of their domain. All of them regal and proud in their finery.  A friend of mine posted this on Facebook today, and I just had to share. The question my friend asked was, “What do you see when you look at this photo?”  What I saw was how proud they are, they look noble and confident. They also look as though they’ve seen a lot.  There is also an air of total grace, a sense of togetherness and a sense of family; whether they’re related or not, they’ll stick together through thick and thin.  As I said to my friend…  “I’d love to wear one of  these dresses with a pair of 5″ heels and call it a day” Maybe with my Jeffrey Campbell Lita shoes, don’t you think? Enjoy your Tuesday afternoon.

Proud black women in their finest!

 

Rock The Red Pump…

In Daily Musings on January 30, 2012 at 2:20 pm

On March 10, the United States will recognize National Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (NWGHAAD). Launched by the Office of Women’s Health, NWGHAAD is a nationwide observance that encourages people to take action in the fight against HIV/AIDS and raise awareness of its impact on women and girls.

While great progress has been made in the area of HIV/AIDS prevention and treatment, women still represent 27% of all new AIDS diagnoses, with African-American women accounting for 66% of that group.

In observance of NWGHAAD, they are back with their 4th Annual Rock the Red Pump™ Campaign! he campaign’s goal is to generate conversation in blogosphere about the issue of HIV/AIDS and how it affects women. (please note text was taken from website.)

For more information go to: http://www.theredpumpproject.org/rock-the-red-pump/

I will be posting more about this campaign closer to the date.