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Happy Birthday Alice…

In Daily Musings on February 9, 2012 at 9:56 am

Alice Walker that is! Happy Birthday to the brilliant author who gave us The Colour Purple, The Temple of My Familiar, Meridian, The Chicken Chronicles and many other great literary works. She is best known for her novel “The Colour Purple” which really put her on the map,  and for which she won a Pulitzer Prize.  As you already know, the book was made into a beautiful Oscar nominated (11) movie.

In 2008 Alice walker wrote an open letter to new elected President Barack Obama, Alice Walker addresses the new President as “Brother Obama”.  Read the letter for yourself @ http://www.theroot.com/views/open-letter-barack-obama

Visit Alice Walker’s new website @ http://alicewalkersgarden.com/  to get more information about her.  If you haven’t read The Colour Purple in a long time (or haven’t read it at all), maybe it’s time to read it again, or finally pick it up.  If time is an issue, get some popcorn and a glass of wine, settle on the sofa and watch the movie to celebrate Alice’s birthday.

       

Alice in 1970

Designer Sex Anyone…

In Daily Musings on February 8, 2012 at 5:12 pm

Well it’s finally happened, there is now a Louis Vuitton condom! Priced at $68.  Now wouldn’t $69 have been a better price point? (smirk!) Why oh why do we need a designer condom?? and for $68!!!! I think I’m extremely fabulous, but I don’t think I need a Louie condom, Trojans will do!  Apparently an architect from Georgia Republic, Irakli Kiziria designed the condom, there is no affiliation with the esteemed designer store, So don’t go running to your nearest Louis Vuitton store to buy a pack  (ladies you should always have your own pack of condoms at the ready).  Irakli and his team are hoping to launch the product on World Aids Day and donate the proceeds to amFAR, The Foundation for Aids Research.  It’ll be interesting to know what Mr. Marc Jacobs has to say about this.  Marc might find it funny but I don’t think Bernard Arnault, the head of LVMH will.  If nothing else I can see a major lawsuit coming Mr. Kiziria’s way. Happy Hump Day!

The Ultimate Black Leggings…

In New Loves! on February 8, 2012 at 11:24 am

 Are by Sassybax!  Black leggings are a staple of every fashionista’s wardrobe.  This simple item can be dressed up or down. Start with a pair of good quality leggings, which have the right texture and thickness, there is nothing worse than a pair in cheap thin material.  With your leggings you can start with a turtle neck, V-neck or crew neck and then throw on any combination of items over it.  Try a wrap dress, an oversized sweater, a tuxedo jacket, a shift dress, a mini, your options are endless. It’s all about layering.  In the spring swap out the sweaters for tank tops or camisoles and then add a cute light weight dress with a cardi or jacket.  Try different pieces until you get your look, and always wear the right boots/shoes!  An ankle boot or knee/over the knee boot is preferable, (especially in fall/winter) if you have to wear a shoe, wear a high-heeled Mary Jane or closed toe pump. Wearing sandals can get tricky, because  if you don’t do it right, it can make you look like a “working girl”, you’ve got to know what you’re doing here ladies.  The important thing is to find a look that works for your shape and size and is completely flattering to you.  The ultimate dress up, is to throw on a fur coat/jacket, some high-heeled over the knee boots, a piece of statement jewelry and your most adored handbag and your good to go!  This combination is a shout out to the most stylish woman I know who is very special to me back home in London.

While on my own continuous quest for the perfect leggings, I came across the Sassybax range.  These leggings are something else. They are of high quality fabric and the most important thing is they give you a little lift and tuck where necessary (always a good thing!), giving you a smooth overall  appearance.  There are two versions, the bottom lifting  and the cigarette pant.  Follow this link and take a look  for yourself. http://www.joyus.com/shop/category/apparel/catalog/1-50816/sassybax-cigarette-pants?vp=169

Available at SaksFreshpair and other online stores.

Small Island…

In Daily Musings on February 7, 2012 at 10:55 am

Last night I watched the first installment of the most amazing mini-series on PBS. The series is called “Small Island“, It’s about the migration of Jamaicans to England in the 1950’s when Jamaica was still a colony of England.  This is obviously the second showing of this series, I have no idea how I missed it the first time around 2 years ago!

This series really touched me in a personal way, because as a first generation, “British born Jamaican” it gave me an idea of why my parents moved to Britain and what they found when they got there.  It was not Buckingham Palace and tea for them!  Even though my mother, told me stories of what it was like, to actually see a vision of it on-screen, it gave me more clarity. These characters could have been my parents.  In one scene, the main character Hortense, asks if there is electricity in every room and when she is told yes, she gets really excited.  Hortense longs for a fulling life and a doorbell after being born and raised in a broken and impoverished home.  Hortense is a school teacher and has it in her head that when she gets to London she will be  teaching rich girls and having tea with the Queen (yes she really does!).  There is never ever doubt in Hortense’s mind that she will get to England, it’s just a matter of how.  Hortense, does what she has to, to get to London (that scene had me falling out laughing, she got a box in her mouth, for her efforts, Jamaican’s understand what I mean!).

Great scene!

There is a quote from Hortense “This island is too small if you have big dreams… without dreams you are nothing” .  This was the mindset of most people on the island, and the reason why they wanted to move away, thinking there was a better life in England. There was, but they worked long and hard and took a lot of abuse for it.  Nothing was handed to them… Nothing!

It was mind-boggling for me to watch the scene where Jamaicans were waving the Union Jack in Jamaica (as that was their flag at the time), all British colonies flew the Union Jack.  Jamaica gained their independence in 1962, the same year my mother left to join my father in London, England.

Before Jamaicans arrived in England, they really thought that because they were under British rule, and therefore “British subjects” they would be treated the same as the Brits once they arrived on those cold, damp, chilly shores.  This was not the case! What they did not realize was the British only wanted them there as cheap labour, to help rebuild after being bombed to dust by Germany.  The Brits really thought the Jamaicans (and other West Indians) were going to come over on a long hard voyage by ship, work themselves to death and then return to Jamaica… Boy were they mistaken! For us British born Jamaicans, this series will certainly touch us deep inside, because our parents lived it.

I don’t want to give too much away about the series as there is a second installment next Monday.  This post will continue.  Last night ended very interestingly, the drama is about to be ramped up. Stay tuned. 

If you haven’t seen it, it’s is a must see, and if you have, take the time to watch it again.  In the meantime visit http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/masterpiece/smallisland/index.html where you can find more information.  This series was adapted from the book of the same name by Andrea Levy.

Andrea Levy

Happy Birthday Bob…

In Daily Musings on February 6, 2012 at 3:42 pm

Happy Birthday to Nesta Robert Marley. Big up from all your British Born Jamaican Fans! We will always love you! you brought your music to the world, which crossed all colours and boundaries.  No matter who you are, where you lived or what type of music you listened to, you knew who Bob Marley was, and we still know who he is today!  If you have nothing else of his, I know you’ve got the Legend Album.  When you have a moment, please read and listen to a great post by fellow blogger Midnight Raver http://fb.me/1FxuTjvIP  Also take a trip to http://www.bobmarley.com/ One Love! 

Happy Birthday!!

Where’s My Birkin??

In Maylana's Dream List on February 6, 2012 at 11:48 am

The ultimate bag of all handbags for me would be a Hermes Birkin bag.  This is the dream handbag that every fashionista worth her salt wants to own. These bags start at approximately  $9,000 and keep going up and up and up!!  The elusive Birkin bag is so sought after as a status symbol by women worldwide that the French fashion house supposedly has a two-year waiting list for potential owners… The bag I’d love to own is the Birkin ostrich skin bag, which runs about $45,000,  yes I said $45,000!!! There’s actually a book “Bringing Home The Birkin by Michael Tonello, available at Amazon.com, telling you how to bypass the 2 year waiting list  and the fun he had tracking down this elusive bag. 

 The Birkin bag is truly serious business.  Since this bag is nowhere  in my budget right now or in the very near future, I’m going to have to settle for this…

It's True!!

 The Birkin is obviously my ultimate dream list item, hey a woman can daydream can’t she?  It’s on my Diva List of overly expensive items I’m allowed to dream about. You should have a dream list too. On this list you can add any  number of wonderful things you’d like to own or do. and then create a bucket list of all the things you’d like to eventually accomplish. Dream of absolutely anything you want. Put it in your journal, write it down, you never know, you may hit the lottery.  When I make/win my first million, in this life time or the next (probably the next) I plan to have my own Birkin.   Happy Monday darlings!
 
    
 

In Daily Musings on February 4, 2012 at 5:06 pm

Beautiful Sally Sohn Jewelry.

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My mother always said I had expensive taste and she remains correct in her assessment. This bracelet by Sally Sohn features antique beads, diamond set balls and gem set charms. My assumption is that Dallas’s Stanley Korshak has only one available, for USD $34,5000 here. The designer, who is Korean raised and based in LA, finds her inspiration in antiques and art.

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Whistleblower For Peace…

In Charities on February 3, 2012 at 11:19 am

While conducting research for a project I am working on, I discovered Falling Whistles, which is an organization that helps to remove little boys of the Congo from militias who send them to the frontlines of war armed with only a whistle to scare off approaching enemies and their bodies serving as the only barriers for the first round of bullets.  After watching the short video on the Falling Whistles website and finding other videos on YouTube, it moved me to give my support and make a purchase.  If my donation will help 1 child in this horrifying situation it is more than worth it.  The whistles come in a variety of beautiful finishes, there is even a Swarovski crystal detailed whistle.

Please take the time to learn more about this remarkable and worthy cause at http://fallingwhistles.com.  Spread the word so we all can become a “Whistleblower For Peace!”

What’s It Going To Take?

In Daily Musings on February 2, 2012 at 12:29 pm

Jody Watley’s moving tribute to Don Cornelius. May he Rest In Peace.

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Jody Watley’s moving tribute to Don Cornelius. May he Rest In Peace.

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I’m Going Naked 2…

In New Loves! on February 2, 2012 at 9:49 am

No I’m not going that naked!! But Naked 2 by Urban Decay. It’s one of the best and hottest eyeshadow palettes… EVER!  This has been the most anticipated sequel to the original Naked Palette, the stores could barely keep it on the shelves, when the original came out, and can you believe there was a waitlist for this one!  With the Naked palettes you can literally create hundreds of beautiful eyeshadow combinations, you can mix them, use each on its own, do whatever your creative heart desires.  Well I’ve finally got mine and I’m very happy. If you’re anything like me, treating yourself is always a happy occasion, worthy of a celebration.  The original Naked consisted of 12 neutral shades which included colours to create the smokey eye look.  The new palette consists of 12 Taupes and what they are calling “Greige” neutrals. I also love the names of the colours, Booty Call, Tease, Suspect, you get the drift.  Urban Decay has done it again!  Beautiful colours and  beautiful packaging.  Available For $50.00 at www.urbandecay.com , Sephora and other stores. Go get yours!!

Beautiful Colours!

 

The Original Naked Palette